In my last post, I discussed the Four Horsemen, which are the four communication styles the Gottman Institute has found through years of research, that are signs of a relationship in trouble and heading towards divorce. As promised, this post will be about practical ways you use can create a more empathetic, nurturing atmosphere in your relationship. Listening: Listening to your partner is very different that what I call “lawyering.” Listening is about understanding; lawyerin