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Menopause and Relationships: How Perimenopause Changes a Woman’s Identity, Emotions, and Marriage
How Does Menopause Affect Relationships? Menopause and perimenopause can affect relationships in several ways: hormonal fluctuations that influence mood and emotional sensitivity sleep disruption that increases irritability and stress changes in libido or sexual comfort increased self-reflection and identity shifts in midlife reevaluation of relationship dynamics and emotional needs While these changes can create stress for couples, they can also lead to deeper communication

lesleythompsonmft
Apr 37 min read


Balancing Growth and Acceptance in Relationships: How to Embrace Reality Without Giving Up on Change
In nearly every couple I work with as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), a familiar tension emerges: “I love my partner… but I wish they would change.” “I want to accept them as they are — but I also need more.” This tension between desiring growth in your partner and relationship and accepting the reality of who your partner is lies at the heart of long-term relational health. I’ve seen this dynamic repeatedly: couples struggle not because they want too mu

lesleythompsonmft
Feb 275 min read


ADHD and Relationships: Tips to Overcome Challenges and Strengthen Bonds
Discover common ADHD relationship challenges and practical strategies to improve communication, connection, and harmony with your partner.

lesleythompsonmft
Mar 12, 20254 min read


Managing Expectations: A Guide to Navigating Disappointment with the 3 A's Approach
Have you ever been excited about a vacation? Or hoping this next job interview will land you in the perfect position? Or looking forward...

lesleythompsonmft
Jan 30, 20246 min read


THE ART OF MAKING UP: Concrete Steps to Resolving Conflict
You had a fight, but even though the fight is over you are now left feeling raw, distance, and uncertain. So how can you make up effectively

lesleythompsonmft
Jul 28, 20204 min read


Making Relationships Work While “Sheltering In”
Being in close proximity with our partner day after day can strain our relationship. Here are 6 tips to help you.

lesleythompsonmft
Mar 23, 20204 min read


Keeping Mentally Engaged While “Sheltering In”
5 tips to stay engaged while sheltering in

lesleythompsonmft
Mar 19, 20203 min read


Keeping Your Balance During Uncertainty
4 tips to care for our Mental Health during the Uncertainty caused by the Coronavirus Outbreak.

lesleythompsonmft
Mar 14, 20203 min read


How to End an Argument in 3 Simple Steps
Tired of arguing? Here's three simple steps to end an argument.

lesleythompsonmft
Dec 12, 20194 min read


5 Tips to Lower Stress Over the Holidays
It's that time of year again!! The holiday season is upon us!! And while it can be a wonderful time of year with giving, family, and...

lesleythompsonmft
Nov 25, 20193 min read


Caution! Contents Inside May Be Hot! A Guide on How to Handle Your Anger.
What if you could get rid of the destructive, toxic part of anger and utilize the positive, constructive part of anger?

lesleythompsonmft
Nov 14, 20196 min read


Take Action! How to take a step towards the life you want.
What if you decided to take action today? What possibilities would you find?

lesleythompsonmft
Nov 1, 20192 min read


How to Help a Loved One with Mental Illness
When our loved ones suffer from mental illness we can be unsure what to do or how to help. Here is a guide to help you navigate.

lesleythompsonmft
Oct 24, 20194 min read


Anxiety: How to Cope
What can we do to cope with and handle our anxiety better? Here are 7 things to help you manage your anxiety.

lesleythompsonmft
Oct 5, 20195 min read


Connection Blockers
Connection. Intimacy. Acceptance. Being Known. What blocks us from experiencing this in our relationships.

lesleythompsonmft
Sep 27, 20194 min read


My Child’s Anger: A Guide to Helping Our Kids Work Through Their Anger Constructively
When our kids are angry, it is important they learn to identify it, identify the cause, self soothe, and constructively problem solve.

lesleythompsonmft
Sep 21, 20195 min read


How to Connect: 3 Ways to Create a Positive Bond in Your Relationship
In my last post, I discussed the Four Horsemen, which are the four communication styles the Gottman Institute has found through years of...

lesleythompsonmft
Aug 27, 20193 min read


Signs That Your Marriage Is In Trouble
Every marriage has its difficulties and challenges. We find ourselves fighting, disconnected and unable to understand one another. Every...

lesleythompsonmft
Aug 7, 20192 min read
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